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Subtle Signs When Reading A Guy


By Alan Bentley

Guys can be frustrating -- they say one thing and do another and often you expect him to act in one way, yet it is the complete opposite! It sure is difficult to know if you are reading a guy correctly. It may not be necessary for you to make a trip to the library to study body language, but look for easy to comprehend signs when you are hanging out with your partner.

Some people reckon that when a man flexes his muscles in your presence he is exhibiting some sort of primeval move, something that we might expect to see in the wild animal kingdom. Keep an eye on him to see what he does when you are around and decide whether he is trying to impress you or not.

When reading a guy, check to see if his head tilts to one side when you are talking to him. Experts agree that this is a sign that he is intensely interested in you, and not just what is coming out of your mouth. The fact that he is holding his head this way means that he is not just faking interest and this is a subtle body language sign to help you.

You can really become good at reading a guy if you look at how he holds himself in your presence. Standing with legs apart and facing you, his body language exhibits that he is being territorial. Don't worry though, he won't act like a lion and attack any other member of the male sex -- but he is being very serious about you!

We are taught from an early age that we should always make eye contact with somebody when we are talking to them. We are told that this is good manners, but it can be a dead giveaway when it comes to reading a guy, as well. If you find that he is avoiding your stare, is not looking at you when you are speaking, or is not looking at you when he is speaking to you, then you can take this as an unfortunate sign. If you notice this behavior on a regular basis it may mean that something is amiss between you and you should try and get to the bottom of the problem.

A man can display his true feelings for you by holding your hand a certain way. If he intertwines his fingers with yours and holds your hand firmly when you are together, he is being very serious about the relationship.

Does your guy always look for an opportunity to brush against you? When reading a guy this will be a great clue, as touching this way is a great sign of affection. You can draw an analogy to your house cat, who will also always want to rub against you, most often at meal time!

Study the body language of your partner and learn a lot about reading a guy quite quickly. It will not be possible for him to fake most of these subtle signals and you can therefore read a lot into his actions

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