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There are a great many people around the world right now searching for get my ex back strategies. Fortunately for them there are some outstanding methods that have been proven effective over the years. However, the vast majority of people don't know what these methods are, let alone know how to use them properly to their advantage. They are in fact, rather counter-intuitive.

Unfortunately, many people end up doing all of the wrong things and making the situation worse than it needs to be. In fact, when we're not using effective strategies, the harder we try, the more difficult things become. If this sounds like something you've experienced, I'm here to tell you, you're not alone.

If you're presently trying to stop a breakup, stop a divorce, or reunite with a lost love then you know what kind of emotional baggage is involved. While we are all different there are some common traits such as anger, resentment, misguided passion and bruised egos to name a few that will leave you asking how do I get my ex back. Where many people fail is by not recognizing these things, for it is these emotions that make all the difference in the world.

First and foremost, you have to take a good honest look at yourself and ask if you really want to get back together with this person or if it is just your ego that has been wounded. If in fact you decide that you do want to stay in a relationship with or reconcile with this person then you need to recognize what role you played in the breakup by doing an honest self-examination.

Take the time to be as honest with yourself as you can before you do anything more to try and get back together with your ex. Once you have done this serious soul searching you can start to put together a strategy that will guide your future actions and help you avoid getting sucked back into the emotional turmoil.

It's really hard to act in an effective manner when your emotions are in control of your actions. Begging, crying, yelling, manipulation and other such irrational expressions of hurt will not produce the results you are looking for. In fact, they will only make matters worse and place a deeper wedge between you. The best thing to do while your emotions are on overdrive is to back off. Put some space between you until you can get yourself emotionally back on track.

This also has another unintended consequence that will very much work to your advantage. You see, we human beings are funny creatures and far too many times we don't appreciate what we have until we have lost it. By putting some distance between yourself and the one you love you will psychologically trigger in them feelings of separation and they won't even know why.

It may be difficult at first to get used to the idea that distance will help. If you are still living together, or work together, you don't need to ignore them. Remain polite and communicative. Just focus on your own life for a time and put the relationship on the back burner. You will actually appear to your ex as strong and in control and that is a very attractive thing indeed. When I was knee deep in trying to get my ex back I found that there are many strategies like this that are extremely helpful.