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Things I Have Learned From Women Who Have Dumped Me


By Linda Buechting

Okay, I could admit, I've been dumped. More than once. More than I'd like to admit, actually. And, while it hurt rather a lot each time, I need to say that I have grown here are some things I have learned from girls who ve dumped me.

Things I have Learned from Women Who ve Dumped Me #1: It takes two.

Often with the agony and heartbreak of a break-up, it is easy to blame the other person for your distress. But the reality is that if the relationship was no longer working, you were an element of the problem. Evaluate what went on so you can apply the lessons to your next relationship.

Things I've Learned from Women Who ve Dumped Me #2: Give women their private space.

Women like to hug and snuggle. They may seem to always be around. But they need their personal space too. Men have a tendency to be possessive. We'd like to keep an eye on where they're going and what they're doing there. If any lady has ever cheated on you, this instinct becomes stronger. But, trust is a key part in a relationship. When you attack her personal space, you send the message that you do not trust your girlfriend. This can easily lead to the end of the relationship.

Things I have Learned from Girls Who ve Dumped Me #3: You get stronger over time.

When you wake up in the morning and the hurt's so real, you will believe that you are going to never get over the break up. But the truth is that not only does time heal all discomfort, but you will appear from the break up a better person. As philosopher Frederick Nietzsche declared, "that which does not kill me only makes me stronger."

Things I've Learned from Girls Who ve Dumped Me four : It's okay if it wasn't meant to be.

Coming to accept a relationship wasn't supposed to be is a key factor in healing. If you had started projecting your relationship into the future - considering marriage, contemplating youngsters - and then the lady you were with broke everything off, regard it a blessing. It's way better to end a relationship that wasn't meant to be earlier instead of later.

Things I've Learned from Girls Who ve Dumped Me five : Good things don't happen unless you make them happen.

Finally, the last lesson I would like to share with you is that you cannot control what occurred, but you can control to how you react to what occurred. If you want good things to happen in the future, you have to make them happen.

That means getting back on the horse. Go out, meet new ladies. Have some fun. Eventually, you can find another relationship. And, if you have followed the recommendation in this article about things I've learned from ladies who ve dumped me, the relationship will be even better and stronger than the last one.

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