3 Ways To Flirt With Women
There are many ways to flirt with girls, but they all fall into three main categories.
Being proactive is nice. You can just say or do something flirty out of the blue.
You can wait for them to do something or say something that you have a pre-planned response for.
And you can bait them into doing something that will set up one of your pre-planned responses.
Here's more detail about each kind of flirting:
TAKING THE INITIATIVE: Call her a name jokingly. Look at her funny. Be a little cocky. Active flirting is fun, but it's a little more risky early on in an encounter. It puts your intentions "out there", so you have to be pretty sure of the situation to engage in proactive flirting.
PASSIVE FLIRTING: Passive flirting is great, because it appears spontaneous. A man who is great with passive flirting shows signs of having a very sharp mind. Here's how you do it: you prepare responses to dozens of common things that women say and do. And then you wait for them to say or do them. Then you act like you just came up with a great response off the top of your head. Here's an example from Swinggcat: suppose a girl bumps into you accidentally, you can respond by saying "Owww, you hurt me. Now you're going to have to drive me to the hospital . . .".
SET-UP FLIRTING: Of course, if you want to look spontaneous, and you don't want to wait for a girl to say or do something you have a pre-planned response for, you can always bait her into doing something that will set up a flirty response. For instance, you could bait her into bragging about herself by asking her a question like "so, what makes you so special?" Then let her brag. And then hit her with your pre-planned bragging banter line.
If you want to learn more about all these methods of flirting, pick up a copy of the book "Flirting Deconstructed".
Being proactive is nice. You can just say or do something flirty out of the blue.
You can wait for them to do something or say something that you have a pre-planned response for.
And you can bait them into doing something that will set up one of your pre-planned responses.
Here's more detail about each kind of flirting:
TAKING THE INITIATIVE: Call her a name jokingly. Look at her funny. Be a little cocky. Active flirting is fun, but it's a little more risky early on in an encounter. It puts your intentions "out there", so you have to be pretty sure of the situation to engage in proactive flirting.
PASSIVE FLIRTING: Passive flirting is great, because it appears spontaneous. A man who is great with passive flirting shows signs of having a very sharp mind. Here's how you do it: you prepare responses to dozens of common things that women say and do. And then you wait for them to say or do them. Then you act like you just came up with a great response off the top of your head. Here's an example from Swinggcat: suppose a girl bumps into you accidentally, you can respond by saying "Owww, you hurt me. Now you're going to have to drive me to the hospital . . .".
SET-UP FLIRTING: Of course, if you want to look spontaneous, and you don't want to wait for a girl to say or do something you have a pre-planned response for, you can always bait her into doing something that will set up a flirty response. For instance, you could bait her into bragging about herself by asking her a question like "so, what makes you so special?" Then let her brag. And then hit her with your pre-planned bragging banter line.
If you want to learn more about all these methods of flirting, pick up a copy of the book "Flirting Deconstructed".
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