Why Date More Than One Man?
If you feel that you have been locked into several unproductive relationships over recent years, then you could be forgiven for thinking that you are wasting your time. Some women in this situation consider that they should use their time more effectively and consider whether they should date more than one man at a time. At least you have a better chance of success?
Be careful if you decide to date more than one man, especially if you think that you are just hedging your bets. At the end of the day you need to be very realistic about what you are doing and fair to all parties involved. If you don't stick to some rules and directions then it could all turn into a real mess.
You may very well be using your time more efficiently, but if you really are going to date more than one guy you need to ask some very hard questions of yourself. Other people will undoubtedly criticize you and is your skin thick enough to be able to cope with this unconventional position?
Time is very precious and when you date more than one man you will have even less of it than you thought you had before. Be very selective in your "list of candidates" and realistic as well. Are both guys truly potential candidates for the long haul?
Never engage in sexual relationships with both guys in a situation such as this as it will lead to bad feelings, complicate your true feelings and be generally unfair. Just leave it out.
It's important to select different venues when you date more than one man as otherwise you will likely run into people who you know and create difficult or even awkward situations at such a time. Again, try and be fair.
Full disclosure is important, as you'll have to let each guy know that you are dating somebody else as well. Just be honest with them and tell them why you are doing this. Chances are they will understand, but if not it is better for you to have told them in advance and for them to refuse, rather than finding out the hard way.
Don't try and create a different personality when you date more than one man. You need to be yourself across the board, as there may be a tendency to try and manipulate a certain type of behavior because you think that particular gentleman likes you that way. If you're not careful, you will create so much confusion in your mind you will end up with nobody!
Be careful if you decide to date more than one man, especially if you think that you are just hedging your bets. At the end of the day you need to be very realistic about what you are doing and fair to all parties involved. If you don't stick to some rules and directions then it could all turn into a real mess.
You may very well be using your time more efficiently, but if you really are going to date more than one guy you need to ask some very hard questions of yourself. Other people will undoubtedly criticize you and is your skin thick enough to be able to cope with this unconventional position?
Time is very precious and when you date more than one man you will have even less of it than you thought you had before. Be very selective in your "list of candidates" and realistic as well. Are both guys truly potential candidates for the long haul?
Never engage in sexual relationships with both guys in a situation such as this as it will lead to bad feelings, complicate your true feelings and be generally unfair. Just leave it out.
It's important to select different venues when you date more than one man as otherwise you will likely run into people who you know and create difficult or even awkward situations at such a time. Again, try and be fair.
Full disclosure is important, as you'll have to let each guy know that you are dating somebody else as well. Just be honest with them and tell them why you are doing this. Chances are they will understand, but if not it is better for you to have told them in advance and for them to refuse, rather than finding out the hard way.
Don't try and create a different personality when you date more than one man. You need to be yourself across the board, as there may be a tendency to try and manipulate a certain type of behavior because you think that particular gentleman likes you that way. If you're not careful, you will create so much confusion in your mind you will end up with nobody!
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