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How To Make Friends


By Alan Rolie

Some people are natural at making friends while some find it really hard to make a few or if any friends at all. This could be due to a variety of reasons. Some people are just too shy to talk to anyone. Some are socio-phobic meaning that they cannot get along in social gatherings.

Such a situation should not mean that people cannot make friends or require friends. We are social animals and hence we all need friends. For some it's just difficult to make friends and meet people.

Typically there are many friends to be had. It's just the matter of breaking the ice. No matter what the reasons for not having friends, all can change. There are some simple but effective ways of making friends.

One good way to make fiends is by spending time with people. The more people there is around you, the more changes to make friends. This should not mean that we are looking to make lots of friends; it's just that the chances to make friends are increased. We can meet more like minded friends and therefore make more friends.

If you happen to be at a new place for example a new area, or a new college or university; it sometimes can be hard to make friends. A great way to friends at college or university is that you should make the first break. Young people are usually shy and full with lots of ego. Hence they do not want to talk or break the ice first. You can.

If you happen to be at a new home for instance a fresh country, or new to college or university; it occasionally could be difficult to make acquaintances. A good technique to make friends at college or university is that one ought to make the first break. Teenagers are generally timid and afloat with lots of ego. Thus they do not prefer to speak or break the ice first. You are able to.

Some other good way of making acquaintances is going to sociable societies, for instance if you like karate then join a society. You are well bound to come across similar folks with related tastes. Speak to them and get sociable. Try to make an effort to volunteer. If you are enthusiastic about wiping out world impoverishment, you could join a charity. There are enough of charity establishments that call for assistance in collection, to work in stores, speaking to the masses, giving out booklets etc. Not only will you be serving a worthy cause but at the same time you can make admirers.

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