On Flirting With Girls Using Ordinary Questions
I've heard many times that you're not supposed to ask the "typical questions" when flirting, and that it can make you seem boring to the girl.
This is wrong in my view. It's actually probably more weird to a girl if you don't ever get around to asking about mundane aspects of her life.
What are the "ordinary" questions we're talking about?
What's your occupation?
Are you in school?
How old are your children?
How long have you lived here?
Of course you don't want to ask question after question like this, or she'll feel like she's on a job interview. But there's a right way to go about asking these questions and still flirt well.
This is the magic formula:
TYPICAL QUESTION FLIRTING FORMULA: after she responds to your "typical question", be ready to be PLAYFUL with her answer.
I will often, very early in the conversation, ask a woman what she does for a living, or, ifshe's in school, I'll ask her what she's studying.
But after I get a response from her, I get playful with her response.
Like this:
If she says she walks dogs for a living, I'll say "Shoot, I was going to bring my dog to the coffee shop today, but decided not to. You would have totally walked my dog all over the coffee shop, right?"
She laughs. She feels like you value her for something other than her looks. And you frame the interaction as one of her being ready to SERVE you in some way.
Don't worry about every guy using this line after reading this article either. Women never get tired of this kind of playful role-playing.
Take this approach for a spin. Use it on women you're interested in, and even one's you're not interested in. It doesn't hurt to get the practice in, and put a smile on someone's face.
Imagine making a little old lady's day with this line: "Goodness gracious, I just know that, if you were my Grandma, you'd bake me cookies all the time, even when my mother said not to. Wouldn't you?" They all love it!
This is wrong in my view. It's actually probably more weird to a girl if you don't ever get around to asking about mundane aspects of her life.
What are the "ordinary" questions we're talking about?
What's your occupation?
Are you in school?
How old are your children?
How long have you lived here?
Of course you don't want to ask question after question like this, or she'll feel like she's on a job interview. But there's a right way to go about asking these questions and still flirt well.
This is the magic formula:
TYPICAL QUESTION FLIRTING FORMULA: after she responds to your "typical question", be ready to be PLAYFUL with her answer.
I will often, very early in the conversation, ask a woman what she does for a living, or, ifshe's in school, I'll ask her what she's studying.
But after I get a response from her, I get playful with her response.
Like this:
If she says she walks dogs for a living, I'll say "Shoot, I was going to bring my dog to the coffee shop today, but decided not to. You would have totally walked my dog all over the coffee shop, right?"
She laughs. She feels like you value her for something other than her looks. And you frame the interaction as one of her being ready to SERVE you in some way.
Don't worry about every guy using this line after reading this article either. Women never get tired of this kind of playful role-playing.
Take this approach for a spin. Use it on women you're interested in, and even one's you're not interested in. It doesn't hurt to get the practice in, and put a smile on someone's face.
Imagine making a little old lady's day with this line: "Goodness gracious, I just know that, if you were my Grandma, you'd bake me cookies all the time, even when my mother said not to. Wouldn't you?" They all love it!
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