3 Bad Types of Men That Women Should Avoid
Even though most women remember the warnings they were given throughout their lives that there are certain types of undesirable men that they should avoid, it's often easier said than done. It seems that it's usually the worst sort of men that can be the most fascinating, and this simple fact can lead to a lot of heartbreak. In this article I'm going to share a few categories of men that you should certainly avoid for the sake of your poor little heart.
First, let's talk about every lady's favorite and least favorite sort of man: the player. The reason that I say the player is every woman's favorite and least favorite sort of guy at once is that the player is usually deceptively charming... initially. As time goes on, the player begins to show his true colors, and the relationship often ends in heartbreak for you, the woman.
You're probably wondering what a player's motivation is for breaking a woman's heart. The truth is that a player is not setting out to break a woman's heart. Instead, a player typically just isn't considering the woman at all. He only thinks of himself, and uses women for his own selfish gains, whether it be status or his own ego. While players can be deceptively charming and alluring, remember how much it hurts for your heart to be broken and you'll see why you should stay away.
While a player may seem like a "bad guy", in the wacky world of dating sometimes even a good guy can be bad. I'm talking about men who are actually too nice. I'm sure you know the type! These sorts of men don't make you feel like you're with a man at all. While their constant adoration and affection can be cute at first, eventually their groupie-like behavior will become a major turn off. It can be very tempting to give these men a chance, but in the end, you need to realize that you need to be with a man that you can both respect and be attracted to for the long haul. That's the only way it will ever work.
Finally, women should avoid men who are overly controlling. This is a deep flaw usually stemming from insecurity. You can't help or change these types of men; they have to do it on their own. No matter what good qualities you see in a man like this, it isn't worth the emotional turmoil he will drag you through.
If you're anything like other women, you'll probably meet your share of all three of these types of men while you look for your prince charming. Unfortunately, these experiences seem all too common in the dating world. But if you're careful, you can definitely kiss a lot less frogs in your life time!
First, let's talk about every lady's favorite and least favorite sort of man: the player. The reason that I say the player is every woman's favorite and least favorite sort of guy at once is that the player is usually deceptively charming... initially. As time goes on, the player begins to show his true colors, and the relationship often ends in heartbreak for you, the woman.
You're probably wondering what a player's motivation is for breaking a woman's heart. The truth is that a player is not setting out to break a woman's heart. Instead, a player typically just isn't considering the woman at all. He only thinks of himself, and uses women for his own selfish gains, whether it be status or his own ego. While players can be deceptively charming and alluring, remember how much it hurts for your heart to be broken and you'll see why you should stay away.
While a player may seem like a "bad guy", in the wacky world of dating sometimes even a good guy can be bad. I'm talking about men who are actually too nice. I'm sure you know the type! These sorts of men don't make you feel like you're with a man at all. While their constant adoration and affection can be cute at first, eventually their groupie-like behavior will become a major turn off. It can be very tempting to give these men a chance, but in the end, you need to realize that you need to be with a man that you can both respect and be attracted to for the long haul. That's the only way it will ever work.
Finally, women should avoid men who are overly controlling. This is a deep flaw usually stemming from insecurity. You can't help or change these types of men; they have to do it on their own. No matter what good qualities you see in a man like this, it isn't worth the emotional turmoil he will drag you through.
If you're anything like other women, you'll probably meet your share of all three of these types of men while you look for your prince charming. Unfortunately, these experiences seem all too common in the dating world. But if you're careful, you can definitely kiss a lot less frogs in your life time!
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